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Happy New Year. Hopefully a year filled with the above.

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I finished reading The Collector the other day (in between turning away frequently as to not cough all over the book). I’d read one of John Fowles’ other books, The French Lieutenant’s Woman, before, but the first contact I had with The Collector was this song. It’s been on repeat for about half an hour now.

I take solace in knowing that no one I know would understand the lyrics to notice my listening to a song about kidnapping a guy and locking him in a cellar, were I to play this out aloud. 

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Stuck feeling miserable with a flu. 

Would like a guy around right about now to take a bit of care of me (not that I’m that seriously ill or anything; it’d just be nice). Or at least give me a bit of a cuddle. 

"icarussol said: is this a self pic?"

It’s not. It’s more of an aspirational image. That sort of build is my goal. 

(Not sure how you’d go about replying to these things, but I guess this will do.)

Have been considering taking a different (or adding another) direction to this blog. Admitted, I didn’t put all that much thought into why I was making one or what I’d do with it when I started (beyond pictures combined with a bit of rambling). 

Been trying to work out a bit lately (which I did mention before). I thought I’d get started early so by the time everyone else starts up again at the New Year I’ll already be in the swing of it. I don’t see the point of delaying it. If you can start it now then you might as well. 

There’s an offer at the gyms here, for £25 a month you get access to 4 or 5 different locations. It seems like a pretty good offer, but sadly I can’t budget for that at the moment. So I’m mostly focusing on stuff I can do at home without any fancy equipment. 

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I no longer have to wonder if I missed this opportunity, since I was the third man in one last week. Which was pretty awesome and I’d like to do it again sometime. 

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Until I saw this, I hadn’t given much thought to bondage. But now, I wouldn’t mind giving it a try. As the one tied up in the middle and as one of the blokes around him. 

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If a guy doesn’t kiss or doesn’t get very into it, it kind of takes me out of the moment. Two occasions stand out in particular (he says like he has a lot of them). 

One was the second guy I ever slept with. Who lived in a student house which was a mess; food left out from what I hoped was breakfast, broken furniture, a yard full of bags of rubbish. And who basically just laid there passively pretty much the whole time. That passiveness and lack of enthusiasm didn’t stop with kissing. The whole event in general would have pretty forgettable if it hadn’t been so bad.

The other was a much more pleasant memory. For one thing, his house was clean. It was my first time bottoming, and he was pretty attentive about making sure I felt okay with everything. When he was finished, I asked if I wanted a blowjob. Unlike the first guy, who gave up trying to make me come half way through a half-arsed handjob and got dressed (though frankly, by that point I was glad to be able to escape). I turned down his offer for some reason, I guess I was kind of tired after that. 

But he didn’t seem to like kissing much. He’d kiss three or four times but then start turning his face away. Eventually I stopped trying. Overall it was great, but if he would have kissed more. It probably would have helped if I had asked him if there was a problem, but I kept my mouth shut (figuratively). 

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Since I managed to fulfil this, this, and (pleasantly) surprisingly this as well, I consider this Friday evening a success. 

And all it took was a walk down the road. 

Though it made me realise I need to put more effort into working out. I got tired a lot soon than I’d have liked. (And of course all the other benefits of working out and getting fit.)

somegayguy:

Sometimes I just want someone to stroke my hair and kiss my neck. 

Right now, I want someone to do this with.

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The first guy I slept with did this to me, which I really enjoyed. I’ve done it with a couple of guys since then, but I don’t remember any of them doing it back. If they did, it mustn’t have been for very long. Maybe there are as many men who like doing it as I’d have liked, or I just made some unlucky picks.

Hopefully there’s be some future men who’ll do it again. Since I managed to reach 21 followers, I’ll ask (partly to try this asking questions thing out, don’t know if it will work): do you like rimming or not? 

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It’s been a while since I’ve gotten laid. Not a long while, but still. Long enough. I’d go out and just find someone to have sex with, but I barely have money to get anywhere lately. I guess I’ll be waiting a bit longer.

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I’ve never actually been with anyone you’d call a bear. It was probably me who was the bear (or cub? otter? I’m not sure what you’d say for someone younger and hairy). This past week or so, I’ve really felt like going out to find one. I blame Tumblr for that.

One like the guy above would be nice. It’s the little smirk that does it for me.

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Doing this is one of the things I like most (top or bottom). 

You can see the video of this here.

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